Archive for September, 2007

My boss (the attorney)

I got this job right out of college (I didn’t go to college until I was in my 20’s because I had my daughter when I was 18 and waited until she started to school to continue my education).  No one else in my class wanted this job because it “didn’t pay enough” but I needed a job to get off of social services so I took it.  I have been here for 16 years.  In that 16 years it went from a 3 attorney firm to a 5 attorney firm to now a 1 attorney firm.  There was another secretary for the longest time but when it was down to the 2 partners they decided they only needed me (thank god).  Well, a few years ago one of the partners decided he wanted to get out of private practice and get an attorney position that came with a regular paycheck.  So he looked for a job (secretly I might add) and when he did get offered a job he gave his partner 3o day notice that we has leaving.  So for the last few years its been me and him (he subleases one of the empty offices to another attorney who I don’t do any work for, thank god because he doesn’t like me, I’m “not in his class”).  He has been very good to me the last 16 years helping me through personal family issues with my daughter etc.  Now, we come to find out a few months ago his kidneys are failing and he needs a transplant, dialysis etc.    I wish there was something I could do for him and hate the helpless feeling because he’s done so much for me.  He tells everyone he can that comes in (we have a lot of regular clients that know me) about how healthy I eat and go the gym everyday like a proud daddy.  But now, I often wonder how long I will have my job and what I’ll do should the worse happen.  I really don’t want to try to get into another firm because for one I can’t type fast at all, most attorneys are not nice to their staff, and I’m actually kind burned out from having to deal with people’s problems (it’s a general litgation office so we do a little of a lot).  I have however been thinking of getting into personal training especially with people who are extremely overweight.  I absolutely love working out and have learned alot about nutrition etc from just doing research online.  I know I like to help people and I think this may actually be something I could enjoy.  I’ve also thought about working with developmentally disabled children since my grandson possibly has some spectrum of autisim (high functioning) but is making excellent progress since it was caught early and he began going to a special school when he was like 2 or 3.   My grandaughtr too is delayed too (she was 2 weeks premature) but not to the extent that he is.  I guess when the time comes I will have to make a decision as to where my future is going. 

New here - hoping to make at least 1 friend

Hi everyone.  I found this site through a post on 3FC.  Hoping to meet people here who share my desire to be fit through eating right and working out on a regular basis.  I go the gym 4-5 days a week  for at least 1 hour and workout at home on Saturdays.  I am currently doing a C25K running program from Coolrunning.com.  I really would like to be able to run at a 4.0 mph for 20-30, heck even 10 minutes straight would satisfy me for short term.  I do the program Tuesday, Thursday, and Saturday, Monday, Wednesday and Friday are Arc Trainer and Elliptical.  I’m on week 4 of 9 of the running program.  If I can get through the whole 9 weeks and run for 30 minutes at a 3.5 - 3.6 I can then gradually increase my speed.  I like to do my weights at home because I like to use free weights and dumbells but don’t have the form down yet to embarass myself at the gym.  The machines there are fine but I feel I get more out of using the free weights and dumbells. 

I really don’t have anyone to talk to about weightloss, weight lifting, healthy foods, etc. because every one I known could really care less and some think I’m nuts because I measure and weigh everything.  My fiance may be the only person who understands and doesn’t think I’m nuts because he’s now finally starting to jump on board and pay more attention to what, how much and the nutritional content of stuff he eats and had worked with one of the trainers at the gym to get him on a regimen and he’s been sticking with it and now that he’s finally below 270 I’m hoping it will motivate him more.  I also think he might be getting a little worried because I have lost over 40 lbs in a year and am starting to “look good” and am moving out the plus size clothing and people are taking notice. 

Well, I’ve rambled enough.  I am usually online weekdays during the day while I’m at work.  Don’t get home until 8 at nite so I eat dinner, clean up and basically go to bed around 10:30 -11:00. 

Take care and have a good day everyone. 

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